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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 00:06

How does one succeed in life?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How good do you sing and how do you know this?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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What I need from you?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How do I build muscle easily with isometrics?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Does not procrastinate.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do unattractive men assume that a pretty woman like me want them?

That's it for today.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Ask yourself:

Procrastinates a lot.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can you give an example of a documentary where the person telling the story believed it to be true, but it turned out to be false?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How did you respond to, "Why do you love me"?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

How do you cope when your mother doesn't love you?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

I’m worried I have a bat bite on my hand, I have two small marks about 1 cm apart. I haven’t been in contact with a bat but I’m worried about at night. My fingers have a slight tingling sensation and my arm feels cold but isn’t. Am I ok?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Making more friends is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.